The Face Behind the Mask

by / 4 Comments / 408 View / August 24, 2015

“The Face behind the Mask!” The words resonate with mystery and excitement.  But in reality it’s a rather sad concept because the person who hides behind a mask is actually dealing with various personality issues.

We’ve all come across people who hide behind masks – people whose real personalities are completely camouflaged behind facades of pretense.

Their facial expressions mask their true feelings and they hide their real motives behind words that are intentionally misleading.

What is it that makes them hide behind these masks and façades?

Whatever the reason, it’s unfortunate that in the process, they set up blocks to real communication and make it difficult for anyone to truly understand them.

So why do they do this?

Because they are afraid that people won’t accept them for who they are. And because they want to hide their fears,  weaknesses and vulnerabilities.

So they play this game of pretense but effectively hide what is really important to them.

When they wear their masks they feel a lot safer. No-one can see their vulnerabilities. But they are really like ostriches with their heads in the sand.

The Value of Graphology

The picture changes when it comes to hand-written messages. Because handwriting does not deceive.

With a genuine understanding of handwriting we can understand what that writer is really saying beneath all the subterfuge.

By concentrating on the forms and shapes of the letters we are able to look beyond the actual words being used. We are able to remove the mask, expose the true nature of the writer and uncover the hidden meaning behind the written words.

You see, when we write we unconsciously reveal certain aspects of our personalities without realizing that we are exposing some of our deepest secrets. Even when we try to change the way we write we cannot disguise our true personalities.

Our fears and insecurities, our little vanities and efforts to impress – all these things are open to scrutiny once we know what to look for in the handwriting.

The Hidden Message

There is a hidden message in every single handwriting that you see.  And when you are able to access that message you get a deeper understanding of the person who wrote the lines.

I have mentioned elsewhere that the purpose of Graphology  is not only to teach people about graphology – though that in itself is, I think, a worthwhile aim.

The deeper purpose is to encourage real understanding, personal development and awareness.

As graphologists not only do we learn how to see behind the masks of other people –  we also learn how to remove our own masks.

How to discover yourself and get a new perspective on your personality

4 Comment

  1. Very interesting read. The term personality and the idea of masking with false identity is currently prevalent in my mind due to particular circumstances I’ve faced this year. I most certainly agree that people hide behind ‘masks’ intentionally however I do strongly believe this can happen unintentionally also, as I have found. I do have a question – whilst graphology can decipher certain personality traits through unconscious writings, can people intentionally or unintentionally write in a way that does not represent their correct personality? Like a ‘masked’ handwriting?

  2. Hi Gaz

    Thank you for your comment which is very relevant. As for your question – yes it is possible to mask your handwriting – many people have done so – just think of forgers! But the reality is that they will not be able to continue masking their handwriting for very long. As soon as they lose focus and stop concentrating on faking their handwriting it will automatically revert to their normal style of writing. You can only consciously mask you writing for a limited time.

    In fact, many graphologists when analysing someone’s handwriting will discard the first page of a handwriting sample and work on the second or third page because the first page will be more studied and affected.

  3. Sandra, thank you for answering my original question. I’m not being flippant, I’m basing this on myself, I guess. When I write I have many styles of handwriting that, I think, is primarily based on who I’m writing to. It’s not a conscious decision as i’m only just realising. It’s not so much forgery by trying to be perceived as something i’m not – as it is more regard to the recipient. Even when I look back over notes and general scribbles there’s irregularity and all sorts of styling. (I’m guessing this says a lot about my personality!)

  4. Hi Gaz
    The interesting thing about handwriting is that not only does it reveal aspects of our personalities, it also reflects our moods and emotions. When we are tense or relaxed our handwriting reflects this. When we write to friends the handwriting is open and relaxed. But when writing under strained conditions, the writing reflects this too.

    The other day, I signed a receipt for a parcel while I was feeling uptight – I didn’t recognize my own handwriting it was so scrunched up! So yes, your handwriting can certainly change depending on the person you are writing to. Handwriting is a sensitive barometer.

What do you think?

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